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Guiding people through grief with honesty, hope, humor, and heart.

Her message helps audiences find the clarity, language, and confidence they need when life feels most uncertain.

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Unraveled: When Loss Changes Everything 
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Never Far Apart
Threads of Gold: Stories of Hope for Hurting Hearts 
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Betty’s work is rooted in the belief that while grief reshapes us, it does not have to undo us. 
She offers steady, compassionate guidance for people navigating deep loss and for those who support them.

Her message helps audiences find the clarity, language, and confidence they need when life feels most uncertain.
"Betty shared stories from her personal life and used them to help people to deal with grief and make positive changes in their lives. I highly recommend Betty as an author and a public speaker."
David Hadden, Chiropractor at O'Fallon Crossing Chiropractic
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About Betty

Betty Mertens helps people find steady ground when life doesn’t go as planned.

Blending her background in brand storytelling with years of walking alongside grieving families and organizations in crisis, she brings a rare combination of clarity, empathy, and grounded optimism to every stage she steps onto.

As the founder of Ella’s Umbrella and author of Unraveled: When Loss Changes Everything, she speaks with honesty and hope about living, leading, and loving through seasons of loss.

Betty's Talks

Guiding people through grief with honesty, hope, humor, and heart.
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For Grieving People 

Moving Forward When Life Can’t Go Back

  • Uncover the 3 hidden gifts in heartbreak
  • Find hope without toxic positivity
  • Discover the beauty in what’s left behind

Leading With Empathy in Times of Loss

  • Learn what to say and do when there are no right words
  • Earn lasting trust in the hardest moments
  • Create calm in the chaos
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For Leaders

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For Couples 

Staying Connected When Grief Pulls You Apart

  • Understand what drives distance during grief and how to rebuild connection
  • Discover the most powerful choice you can make to protect your relationship
  • Find moments of meaning together when joy feels out of reach

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What Clients Say

Her message helps audiences find the clarity, language, and confidence they need when life feels most uncertain.
David Hadden, Chiropractor-OFallon-MO-David-Hadden-About-circle-a878304c192f9896251e62b601
"Betty shared stories from her personal life and used them to help people to deal with grief and make positive changes in their lives. I highly recommend Betty as an author and a public speaker."

David Hadden, Chiropractor at O'Fallon Crossing Chiropractic

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Connect with Betty

Guiding people through grief with honesty, hope, humor, and heart.

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